Flirting & My Stories

Flirting & My Stories

I promised you a flirting animation in the last video, so here you go. BURPITY BURRRR Big shocker…I don’t like it. *Chuckle* I’m assuming you all guess, based on my personality, That I’m not one to partake in (SEDUCTIVELY) “swooning” someone over with charming words of flattery…. I don’t think I have ever flirted in my entire life, come to think of it. Okay, well, I did this one time by accident, but I-I’ll get to that later on. I’m more of a, “Make someone feel good and just, overall let them know I care about them” kind of person. (=‐ω‐=) I have no courage to do anything else. All I can imagine is me just trying to approach someone, being like, “Hey there” ……… (what da) “I have a girlfriend………” “OH MY GOD! SAME!” “We have so much in common!” (not realy) … :I *D E E P I N H A L E* ._. Agh, O F F” And even if I somehow got past the initial “flirty introduction”, My low small talk skills won’t get me very far with anything anyway. Okay, so, the first time I ever tried to be a “confident flirty person” or whatever was with this one friend I had. I liked them at the time and we hung out a lot. And one time, we were just sitting on their bed, just chillin’ and talkin’. Just buds being buds. And my mind just starts going, “Okay, you’ve never done anything close to flirting in your entire life. Who even are you? Get your crap together,” “Just do something, let’s go, jeez, c’mon-” I basically bullied myself into submission, which, I didn’t even know was possible, but, congrats to me, I guess. 😀 I peer pressured myself without any peers. So, we were just talking and I just, wrapped my arm around them. Like, with no warning. They were just mid sentence and I was like, ANGH And I IMMEDIATELY regretted it. Like okay – no this is not what i want anymore, why did i convince myself to do this. I’m – god dangit! Cutting the story short, we just remained friends, and, honestly, I’m glad we did. I realized that I prefer this person much more as a friend and I’m glad we didn’t start a relationship. If anything, we just become closer as pals. They are literally, one of my best friends now. They also watch my videos, soo, hey You’re probably expecting me to say this is awkward, but you’re wrong! BUT YOU’RE WRONG!>:D WE’RE BEST FRIENDS! *swag intensifies* Sorry! you can’t laugh at my self-deprecation this time! HA! Just a side tangent, I don’t understand why people just stop talking to someone just because they don’t share mutual feelings with them. like ok so.. You like someone enough to possibly consider starting a closer relationship, Which means, You already enjoy their company, personality and overall, them as a person. And just because they don’t share the same romantic feelings back, you all of a sudden, don’t want to associate with them anymore? That makes absolutely NO sense. Minus the relationship, you two sound like you could’ve had a freagin’ BOMB friendship. Since you theoretically should be able to get along perfectly, I mean, if you consider them as an adequate possible partner, I dunno, it just doesn’t make sense to me. eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeh unless you’re a douche bag and only like that person for their looks and nothing else. Another part to flirting is, The texting, the messaging, the sliding in the dms-ing. And I don’t really do that either, but I have something to say about it. So, I guess I understand why you would want to wait a few minutes to text someone back, because you don’t wanna seem clingy or something. But, why do people wait, like, more than ten minutes? That’s such a waste of time! And it kinda comes off that you don’t really care that you’re talking to them. Which is the opposite of what you’re feeling. Why can’t we show when we appreciate someone anymore? Also, I know people who want to text someone they like as little as possible, because, I dont know. They’ll almost make it a competition to try and leave the conversation first. They’ll almost make it a competition to try and leave the conversation first. Like, “Congrats! You win on finding a way to make them be the last to text in your conversation!” “You know what your prize is?” “Not getting to talk to the person you wanna talk to!” Putting it that way doesn’t make it seem all that appealing, does it? So now I’m sure you’re wanting me to tell you stories that make me kind of die a bit inside, but provide you with entertainment. (Sarcastically Enthusiastic) Let’s start with awkward first date, shall we? (Sarcastically Enthusiastic) Let’s start with awkward first date, shall we? During my junior year of high school after our homecoming dance, My group of friends and I wanted to go bowling, because, fun. I didn’t have a date. Obviously. At the bowling place, next to our lane, were a group of people around the same age as us. And, out of the blue! One of my friends just goes, “HEY! WILL YOU GUYS TAKE A PICTURE WITH US SO IT LOOKS LIKE WE HAVE DATES!?” (Silence) “RACHEL!” So, we took pictures with these random people, And the one that was my date- “date” was like, “Heh, you should send that to me.” And me being freagin’ innocent and clueless, just goes, “Okay!” “Wait, I don’t have your number.” “wait” “did I just…” “how did I do that?” So blah blah blah I had this persons number now, And I was like, “Oh yeah, I totally meant to be all smooth like that.” To my friends. But, in reality. Ehh, technically, uh, NAH I have no idea what I’m doing. 😀 They end up asking me to the movies and I was like, “ok” But my parents didn’t want me to go alone, so they made me invite Kate and her boyfriend at the time to go as a double date. So we all go to the movies, and since I literally don’t know anything about this person, we didn’t know what to talk about. The whole time. It was all just, “flop” conversations like, “So how was your day?” “Good, how about you?” “Good.” “What’s your favorite color?” uuhbtt AAUGHH It was really… UUUUUUGH I can’t, uhbbt. auggh. It was, scarring. Like, I’m serious, I will never accept any movie invitations unless it’s with close friends or family. All that comes to my mind when I think about movie theaters are just, flashbacks… Like, I don’t wanna relive that! I already lived through it once. That’s quite enough. No more please. So that story wasn’t too bad, just awkward tension- COME ON LET’S BUMP IT UP A BIT! Awkard first kiss! (Oh dear god) so hey my first date was with someone i literally didn’t know you think i’d learn my lesson and would kinda get to know someone before i accepted date invetations, right? W R O N G (hint i’m bad at saying no to people) Also, this is my second date ever. Just putting that fact out there. During my freshman year in college, this person invited me to go on a date, and yeaah, I didn’t know them either. like at all. I’VE LEARNED MY LESSON NOW, OKAY!? We meet up and decide to eat at a restaurant, and heyo, I’ll save some time just by saying, It was going VERY similar to my first date. EXPOSITION TIME! My college has this mountain near it called, “A mountain” and people liked to hike it. Well, I- umm, it’s really not even a hike, more like, walking up at a mild angle. So we wound up walking up “A Mountain” and sitting on a rock platform at the top. And we continued attempting at a normal conversation *not really succeeding.* At one point they put their arm around me Come to think of it, all these stories are kind of coming full circle and I never realized and I’m kinda freaking out And I kinda start just panicking to myself. *Okay, I see where this is going, but I don’t know if I want to end up kissing them.* *Like, I literally know nothing about this person- AGAIN* *And I haven’t kissed anyone yet, what is even happening right now? Oh golly jeez* And all of a sudden, they grab my face and turn it towards them And I’m going, *I SEE WHAT’S ABOUT TO HAPPEN BUT CRAP I DON’T KNOW IF I WANNA KISS THEM YET!* “Oh, well I ran out of time.” So anyone who just happens to take a date up to the top of “A Mountain” and sit on the platform thing, You’ll be sitting on the same spot I accidentally got kissed by someone. And if you’re there, Take a picture and tweet it at me. I’d say preferably if you guys kissing but that’s kind of weird, and I mean, unless you want to. This last story isn’t really about flirting or dates, but I think it’s kinda funny. I was hanging out with an ex-friend, and we were walking along our colleges main strip, It’s a street called “Mill” and it’s got a bunch of stores and restaurants along it. And just because I like how all these stories are kinda connecting, the restaurant first kiss and I went to was on this strip too. We sat down at a bench outside a shop and these two passersby go, “Awwww, relationship goals.” as they walk into the shop. We kinda looked at each other and laughed and just kept talking. Then, a few minutes later, the same people left the store and walked by us again and were like, “so how long have you guys been together?” And we were like, “Et-Umm” Like, we froze. And after a bit, I just go, “He’s gay.” Their faces were like, *INHALE* “WE MADE A MISTAAAAAAAKE” So, moral of the video, don’t overthink relationship stuff or dates or kissing or whatever you’re overthinking. If you like someone, tell them. If you want to date someone, ask them. If you wanna kiss someone, give them more thinking time before you yank their head at your face. Just be cool about it all If you can’t be a couple, then show the world how BOMB you guys are as friends! ALSO! SUPER SPECIAL SECRET ANNOUNCEMENT! I’m gonna try and whip up a video explaining this a bit more, but basically, THERE’S BEEN A REVAMP TO THE SHOP! A bunch of new merch stuff but more importantly, PLUSHES! YEP-YAHP! There is Jaiden plushes, just, AWAITING YOUR PURCHASE NOW. More details in the official announcement video. But if you’re still here, that means you have early access to the new Jaiden merch.>:D I highly suggest checking that stuff out especially since everything’s on sale for a limited time right now WUUUUUUUUUUUT Anyway, new shop, go peep it out and yeah UUUUHHHH JAIDEN OUT! *hah*

100 thoughts on “Flirting & My Stories

  1. i already know what you guys are gonna say and no, none of these stories are about james so you can take off your detective hats thankyaverymuch

  2. lol, I cant flirt. I would like say something "cool" and then they just do nothing…. its really awkward.

  3. Is that girl in that red dress kate of your old video

    I don't no know how to spell her name or I'm just a idiot

  4. So one time I had an AGONIZING crush on this girl at school and we were good freinds and she was kinda secretive and kept to herself so when i asked her out she said "uh… Sorry, I'm gay." Yeah… It sucked

  5. Some people that don’t talk to their crush after they get rejected because they are embarrassed to talk to them later

  6. Jaiden have a nice modest personality in her videos not sure how she is in person, but she is bubbly and cute, not sure how she is single (idk if she really is) but I'm sure she is popular now she has many guys after her :3 I bet going on a date with her would be really funml despite her announced awkwardness and anxiousness

  7. This is your instant ticket out of conversations, just say that somebody near you is gay… Then BOUNCE!

  8. CRINGE LEVEL: 9999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999

  9. Apparantly Jaiden explained literally the thing that happened to my crush!!! I just wanted to be best friends!!! ;-;
    It went like this:
    Frend:hey did u now my ftend likes u
    Me:fghbjgfsinfyjdubd '/////'
    Crush:>:( I hate u forever now
    My mind: ouvfjfdbj I just wanted to be friends!!!

  10. Am I early oh hell nah am I late hell ya but I don’t care because your content makes me feel great! 🙃🙃 (sorry if this is cringe 🙃🙃)

  11. I had to say no to a guy bc my parents don't want to date, I told him that too, and it was stupid cuz he literally ignored me the whole time in class like WHAT THE FLUFF I THOUGHT U LIKED ME?!

  12. Okay so for anyone who relates to Jaiden and doesnt understand why people stop being friends with their crush when they dont return your feelings is thes reasons: 1. It could be awkward. Them knowing you like them and only wanting to be friends is kinda weird. 2. If youre friends with the person and they get into a relationship youd be sad. For example: i stayed friends with the guy I'm literally in love with after he rejected me. He's in a relationship and always sends me pictures and videos with his girlfriend and it just crushes me. It hurts, it really does so i stopped being friends with him

  13. HA your atleast lucky enough to have a date or 2 with someone. Instead this guy (points at myself) is a lonely weeb who stayed single forever with lost hopes of finding the true one.

  14. I don't really flirt. But there's this one guy I hang out with because we're friends. He's funny so we joke and laugh a lot together. And do silly things together. (I promise it's not like all relationshipy. We just hung out a lot in freshman year of high school, because we didn't have any classes with our other friends. Neither of us our social so we just hung out and got close as friends)
    The people in my classes are like, "Hey stop flirting!"
    And I'm like, "What?!! I wasn't even trying to! WHere you get that from bro?!"

  15. So hey my first date was with someone I literally didn’t know you think I’d learn my lesson and would kinda get to know someone before I accepted date invitations right?


  16. The thing happen to me on A mountain but a girl did it (I am a boy) I was gonna take a picture but then they but there arm around me OMG just I met her 13 days ago this was in my head straight up kisssed me on the lip and both cheeks. I was frozen and didn't know what to do than it happened on the lip again and I said "Hey I think It's time to go to the playground." But AGAIN another 😘. So I was like "Ok… I'll see you later" But they just was looking at me. So like 5 the times I got kissed. Any questions. Ask away.

  17. Jaiden : hey there
    Random guy jaiden likes : I have a girlfriend
    Jaiden : omg I do to we have so much in common
    Me : wait you lesbian

  18. 0:33

    i'm pan, and i did that to one of the popular kids in my school, not as a joke, and they just laughed and now they're my best friend 😂😂

  19. People: Oh, How long have you been together?
    Me, Hanging out with my friend (She's a girl btw): Uh…Well…
    Friend: He's gay.

  20. Wherever I try to flirt with girls think I’m a straight girl complaining them, whenever I try to flirt with guys they thing I’m a lesbian and/or tomboy trying to make to make friends, and whenever I try to flirt with anyone else we just confuse each other until the conversation dissolves into awkward silence.

  21. my summer was bLeh, im starting to think that my crush that i still like, doesn’t like me. eH there’s other fish in the sea ):)

  22. sophomore at ASU and love all the stories and knowing where all these places are 🙂 wish I could meet u omg

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